Never let anyone tell you...

2 posts in 2 days? That's right, my creative juices are flowing apparently. This blog post is a little like my "Follow your Dreams" post but it's quite different. Today I'm telling you never let anyone tell you what you can and can't do; unless it is the law or your parents (depending). I'm saying this because I'm sick of people telling me who I can and can't talk to and who I can and can't date. My parents hate my 16 year boyfriend because over a year ago he punched my 12 year old brother. The time this happened I think my boyfriend was 14/15 and my brother was 11. My brother is seriously annoying and was being creepy towards his sister (who, at the time, my brother liked), honestly, I don't think he should have done it but I think he deserved it. I'm still going out with him after my dad told me I wasn't allowed, my mum found out today that I'm still going out with him and she is going to tell my dad. I'm in big trouble.

                    I personally think they have no right to tell me who I can date and who I can't, it's my life, if I get hurt it's my own fault. They should just accept that I'm happy with him. I hope my parents are reading this, if you are then please don't tell me who I can talk to and who I can't, it's me that will get hurt and I'm okay with that. I want to make mistakes and I want to get hurt so I can grow  older than wiser. I will never learn if you don't let me. I will never grow up if you don't let me. You are constantly telling me to grow up and to stop behaving like a child. I have two things to say about that: 

1) I can't grow up if I don't make mistakes and get hurt (love) to learn from it. 

2) It's okay to behave like a child, maybe not crying when I'm hungry or sucking on a dummy, but it's good to act younger than you actually are sometimes. It's stops people from being grown up at 13 (preteens). Some people I know (that are in their 20s) act really childish and it's okay, they are grown up as well, they still do taxes but they also watch anime in their Pokemon onesies. (These people are Dan and Phil if you hadn't noticed.)

I know my parents are trying to save me from being hurt because they don't like seeing me hurt or broken, I don't like feeling like it either but I would rather be broken and be able to grow up and learn from my mistake than to be saved every chance my parents get and never grow up and constantly be that child they don't want me to be.

Rant over. Thank you for staying through it, have you been in a place where someone has told you what you can and can't do? It doesn't necessarily have to be your parents. I'd love to hear from you guys.

YouWouldn'tHaveGuessed.